Pubdate: Mon, 23 Feb 1998 Date: February 23, 1998 Source: Toronto Star Author: Dave Haans Re: Remind your children marijuana is dangerous (Feb. 16). In Louise Brown's column, Andrea Stevens Lavigne says, "Kids are too smart for parents to lie to them." I couldn't agree more. Why then, do we find the same old, discounted marijuana myths trotted out in the rest of her column? For example, Wayne Walker of the Hospital for Sick Children says that marijuana "takes away any motivation" and is "also the stepping stone to harder chemicals." How can these statements be reconciled with the fact that even Ross Rebagliati, with all of his motivation taken away, could still train hard and win a gold medal at the Olympics? And, how do we approach the tired stepping stone theory, with the common sense knowledge that while marijuana is the most popular illegal drug, the majority of its users do not go on to other illicit drug use? Similar lapses in logic can be found in public health nurse Carmen James-Henry's assertion that marijuana is addictive. How can we (and our children) take such an assertion seriously when the facts are that less than 1 per cent of marijuana users in Ontario progress to daily use? No one wants kids to use marijuana, or tobacco or alcohol, for that matter. However, if the Rebagliati affair sends a mixed message to kids, lying to them about marijuana is an even more dangerous mixed message, one that says kids "can't trust anything I say about drugs." A more productive strategy for a parent is to accompany their child to the local library, where they can both research and discuss the facts, and get away from simplistic, illogical drug education sound bites. Dave Haans Toronto, Ontario, Canada